hiiii hah im bloggin yay =)
ytd was a tired but nice da out with family. thoug yea v v tired. glad to be back by evening .
ever since sammy long ago showed me this funny video by this indian man who stayed in a western country he was like talking abt how women think too much.. etc
whilst man is not a thinker. staring into space without thinking a thing is what they are capable of.
so... it intrigued me. then i thought of i heard this popular book. men are fromm mars women are frmo venus.
been wanting to get to book. but its not like ya know. .oh i want it so much now. tats why i nvr go find it or anything. then todya, i happened to come across it. and its on sale.
like bookstore on sale
so i bought it. i read the introductions.. and i i felt like crying . cos i feel so sad for his wife.
he said.. .after first week of their new born daughter, his wife still in pain bu tgettin gbetter. so he wnt back to work. then. she called her bro cos her pain killer ran out. his bro supposed to visit her mah. but forgot get the pillsfor her .=.=
then when he's back from work. she say ... erm. what im typing is roughly what he rote cos now im not typing according to every single word he wrot on the book. so yea.
so she say. ive been in pain whole day. (cos of birth. like duh.women suffered pain huuuuu) i called ur bro he forgot the pills.. etc. duno what els.e abt liek this bah.
he took it as she's blaming on him. then that day he's also kinda like.. in a fury mode'
he say something liek. .so youre blaming on me? why didnt u call me instead?! etc..
then he say he's gonna walk out the door.
then she pleaded.. .tears welling up on her eyes. .
please don go. i need u now more than ever. dont walk outta that door.. all she neede is him right now. i've been in pain this whole week. neede him by her side this moment. .rrly needed him. she said somethng more touching sorry i cant remember. .
then she say. when im the loving person, you'll be so loving and caring towards me, but when i changed, into angry or sad person, you'll walk out on me.
he then hug her. and she weeped in his arms.
here. he realized that... any women couldve know and understand his wife the moment she told him hw painful she is.. .all she needed is a hug. and love. but hm, as a man, couldnt understand, and took it as a blame onto him.
and he also realized. .yes its true. whenever shes nice he's nice back. when but when she's in adown mood or sad.. etc.. .he'll turn away =(
all this while thats what he's been doing to her. (im not sure how long they've been married or been together . but that's their first baby )
so yea.... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
uh huh. ikkr
sobx. so touching. hey! at Least he realizes his wife feelings. and his mistaake. unlike maybe some other man wouldve been. thinking. .maybe. .omg crying again?=.= i had enuff.etc.
so yea. ..
gd thing he went back and hug her. thats al lshe need from suffering the whole day in pain.
i cant even imagine how the pain is even though im a woman myself. ive not given birth before ya knnow. ..gosh...
saw this saw. this actor say when he look at his wife u know ehere, when they say ok the baby is coming outsaw the baby... he also saw (he said it in a joking humours way) how his wife is being dismembered' .he can see her lungs..liver instines. .etc. omg i duno man .=(
one thing for sure. giving birth is hell of a lot of painnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
so i cant imagine. .gosh. just after one week, and he's walking out that door???
tahts why. guess some man can understand. but some cant. then again. he mentioned. that day he's on the fury mode' too. so yea. i duno . maybe lack of slp or boss scolded dhim?
so yea. ..anwyay cant treat just given birth wife like that mah
then he looked back ...at how his first marriage ended.
thats his prob.
other couples he helped rrly...alot..alot. his book sold more than 15million copies world wide.
he say... this coupe of 9 yrs. .had so much differences. they came to him saying wanted divource... (he sorta console ppl i think )
then they are surprised to learn that soooooooo many couples had their own differences. and that is normal.
uh huh.
then in the end, after anothr 6b yrs, he visited them and they are still together. more than ever loving each other. awwww=)))
duh. which couple is perfect. therell always be differences.. etc. compromise. respect. and ya know.. .love each othre! accept each others flaws.. and learn to accept who they are.
imagine if im the wif eof sammy. he dislike too spicy food. while i love it, ofc i wont cook spicy meals for him everyday=.= duh. nid to compromise. find ways.and respect it. i could always cook up an extra dish for my own spiciness cravings .or just a plate of chilli padis on the table or anyday head out to eat a spicy meal.
thats what... so called.. u know. have a happy outcome for everyone. instead of like. .gosh then im not cooking anymore. or u know what, learn to eat and tahan my spicy dishes.
like. thats selfish. =.=
how can u live with someone like that?
gosh so many to type today .O.o woah.
huuu... just when i said that, . i forgot liao. i wanted to talk abt the recent tarot card topic.. but another topic.. .it slike been wanting io type for soooo ages ago i think. now slipped off my mind again wth=.= huuu
sorry
huuu such a pity i was like on i rememebr now! so excited to type it =.= then now i forgot. .huu
nvm.. now onto the tarot card topic. are u ready?
ytd my fren told me they went for a famous and v long been there tarot card reader.
at holland v.
and. .. its abt 85% acurate according to my frne.
they asked abt life. not future. the now. abt partners...
my fren still kinda misses her ex. but with her bf is like. .not rrly tat love.. more of like... somemore he's too nice.. liek gd man.
so now she smore .. .relief .. .to know.. he could be the one.
the reader say to her. she and her ex wont make it. cos there'll be a 3rd party. she nvr told her. but she said it. uh huh. a women broke them up .=/
then with this currant bf, in 6 yrs time, if they cant overcome their obstacles of their differences(she cant stand how he's too straight forward and talk without thinking. u knowshes smart street.. smart like sammy), she'll be the one who choose to live.
uh huh. given her personaility, she will.
but if they overcome it, they will be together happily ever after=) aww. ..
she say she did told her bf. and her bf not skepitcal abt it. he's liek ok with it. but gd. cos he nvr scold her or what. and listen(he's v nice)
and its gd. cos at least she told his whats their obstacles, they can change, or u know. overcome it in future=) yay
then another fren, life not so smooth . (i heard this not from herself cos its personal so my fren told me abit) . she also asked abt her bf. and this new guy she met(remember the batam trip? the one who has a guy wooing her. .bought her tiffang neclace..etc skype )
i asked. .so how? anyone of them make a gd match for her? my fren shakes her head..... =/... aw.. but yea.thats it. she cant say i also wont ask. i respect my fren's privacy till i see her see if she would tell me.
another best fren of hers i heard of all the time. ..long story short. they used to hang out together all the time 3 of them .then she got married. then my 2 frens get to know me. and now it sliek the new 3 of us hanging out .but they still met up like naturally. cos been frens so long liao. but that girl is married.
she askded abt her husband and her this new fren who showers her with alot of lavish gifts and always bring her to high end restaurants=.= their personailities clicked so much and so alike they can talk so much etc. .. like so nice to talk to him forever go tsame nice topics to talk abt(well maybe also cos they just know each toerh bah)
my fren told me once. ..that their best fren having probs(of after marriage life) just tat she didnt tell them .
so duno got probs with her husband naot. but heard her husband is v rich de. whilst shes' a. .u know. commoner.
anyway.. reader ask her. is that girl or guy. cos she sees no love between them .as in her new found fren . she say guy.
she say. he's not a man who wanna settle down and get married.she say yea. she know.
reader say they will consists nothing of love. they can talk and talk etc. .but no love between them at all.
im thinking... maybe the guy just wanna get her into his bed ya know=/
dang. some guys are jerks! know shes amrried yet still... argh.
so yea... haiz.
=/
my fren then say... ask me go next time. im like. O.O say whatttttttttttttttttt??????/////
somemore ask me go ask abt my relationnship with sammy. wattttttttttttttttttt
just to get a assurance. =.=
gosh .
i duno man. if im prepared for that kinda thing.
haiz.
anyway.. billions x billions of humans in this world..galaxy whatever... it is.. to meet someone u love. or to care for, is like the most. .precious thing u'll ever find in ur lifetime.
some ppl only foudn true lov ein their 40s or 50s..etc.
when i met sammy i fin dit so wasted. .to not meet him (i cant say fin dcos he's the one who found me=) ) earlier ..but than.. better late than never. and somemore. ..its rrly... not tooo tooo late. y aknow. i met him when he's just turning into his 19th year =) so yea. grateful thata its aint his 50th years old year ya know.
whetehr u treasure it. .cherish it. .its all up to u. after all, fate lies in ur hands. ur decisions could change ur life . forever.
make the wise one, and you'll remain happy like treasure.
i cant wait to read on this book. =)
sighs still not able to recall what i'd wanted type abt..which is longago topic... oh man. hopefully as i blog more often, i will rememebr..
ahh... he still hasnt msg yet.. .i wonder.. .slping o rbusy.. or.. .
miss him
jaa mata ne.
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