in a bloody foul mood right now.
like v v v black foul bloody mood =((((((((((((((((((( and so pissed off. though upset is more of what i will say.
i nid to rant this out now.
like im gonna burst. .
look. ive nothing against the lky paying respects et his death etc.
i respetct him alot. im so grateful. i also cried. im sad he's gone but. seriously. allthis happened at a bad time for me.
how i wish its next week .instead of this whole week .
i feel bad saying this . but its just a rant. i feel so frustrated right now.
like. .this most crucial week, cos of this whole thingy, nobody shops alot anymore..etc. it causes me and my team a winning prize. we were so bloody close mates. without this week of chaos, we couldve done it for sure. now, al lhardwork went down the drain. to be honest. ... i duno what to say.
i rrly thought we couldve won this comp. sighs. and i woke up. still feeling grumpy from last night, and i wanna waatch my fav tv show. guess what.,
oh. lky tv is on again.
not to mention the fact that its been on since many nights for this whole week
now . its raining heavily.
im so freakin gpissed off.
our big prize flew away just within our grasps. ..'
i wish i could talk abt this but yea. nv,m. just blog. share it with someone.
baka timing.
hate it.
adding woes to my wounds.
ok. so now im feeling better after i had a heavy lunch. cos internet prob couldnt publish.
whilst having lunch i watched youtube too. wow my phones batt rrly gd... anyway. yup. mum asked. dun wanna watch the lky snedin ghim off tv ar. i say. who woanna watch that. yea i was rrly frustrated at that point of time. serioously imnot interested to watch this kind of thing when my days been shit like days
sighs . so yea. that past hour of eating quietly on my own and watching my fav youtube channel, ..been by the the best hour in my entire week. peaceful and such a joy moment.
so yea.
v full now. and slpy. gosh slpt late last night duno what im even doing
anywya,
tv still on... lky.. .omg. ..
sianz.... think i wanna go out without parents later. im bored to death.
on a side note, u know how i find the love between lky and his wife ever so amazing.. .and recenlty i read this .. .when his wife sufferd a stroke, everynight without fail he will company her sit by her bed and read her poems... read her book and etc.. .massage.. her. omg.
omg. uh huh. tats why ... how can i not teary when i look at them. its one of those couple who proves that true love exists....
mata
28 March 2015
feeling blue =/
sorry. not in the mood.. so gonna skip the tips again...
duno why im so stressed oout lately. not that bad but yea. .still. ..=/ making me so unhappy...
u know that path i always take and encounter countless of weirdos...asking to know me.blah3... wed, another one. he did the tsu tsu '' sound which i detest the most. and i despise the most.
omg.
seriously tho... haiz. ive taken a big round route to avoid my 'neightbour' store... now this path.. .i cant be bother. i will walk there as usual. ifnot its liek a bloody extra mins of detour.. whatever happens i will just walk straight ahead and not look back at whoever.
i managed to delay the meeting with my best fren. phew...
duno he got ask his sis anot. nvm i can always ask his sis again
mm.. . duno why ive been slping so long yet still so tired and slpy. 11 hrs plus.. .then next day 10 hrs. then abt 10 hrs again.. .gosh. i slpt early though abt 12 plus. to 1plus.
maybe i shouldnt slp ealry. haha. nah.
duno bah. just so weird. this whole week.. .so...
sighs
anyway probably shoudlnt dwell on that. sucks
many of my frens said before. .if he want to, he wouldve done it.
is that true
anyway, hopefuly next week will be a better one. adn yup. lesson learnt . nvr book last min flight. its true. prices will go up by some. ha. .o well. its ok bah.
tips
46 pay more attention to her than in public
47 make her more important than the children . let the children see her getting your attention first and foremost
48 buy her little presents like a small box of chocolates or perfume
49 buy her an outfit ( take a picture of your partner along with her sizes to the store and let them help you select it)
50 take ictures of her on special occasions.
wow. all bingo !!!
love these 5 tips. spot ons!
so awesome. my country manager visited my store. and praise it so much saying everything is 100% perfection!! and wishes our strict ceo to come look at our store. im like. .erm.. lol. no thansk.i dun wanna see himXD haha
anyway all hard work pays off yay cheers
ever felt like u gonna cry but u couldnt ..no tears ccoming out at all..
mata
duno why im so stressed oout lately. not that bad but yea. .still. ..=/ making me so unhappy...
u know that path i always take and encounter countless of weirdos...asking to know me.blah3... wed, another one. he did the tsu tsu '' sound which i detest the most. and i despise the most.
omg.
seriously tho... haiz. ive taken a big round route to avoid my 'neightbour' store... now this path.. .i cant be bother. i will walk there as usual. ifnot its liek a bloody extra mins of detour.. whatever happens i will just walk straight ahead and not look back at whoever.
i managed to delay the meeting with my best fren. phew...
duno he got ask his sis anot. nvm i can always ask his sis again
mm.. . duno why ive been slping so long yet still so tired and slpy. 11 hrs plus.. .then next day 10 hrs. then abt 10 hrs again.. .gosh. i slpt early though abt 12 plus. to 1plus.
maybe i shouldnt slp ealry. haha. nah.
duno bah. just so weird. this whole week.. .so...
sighs
anyway probably shoudlnt dwell on that. sucks
many of my frens said before. .if he want to, he wouldve done it.
is that true
anyway, hopefuly next week will be a better one. adn yup. lesson learnt . nvr book last min flight. its true. prices will go up by some. ha. .o well. its ok bah.
tips
46 pay more attention to her than in public
47 make her more important than the children . let the children see her getting your attention first and foremost
48 buy her little presents like a small box of chocolates or perfume
49 buy her an outfit ( take a picture of your partner along with her sizes to the store and let them help you select it)
50 take ictures of her on special occasions.
wow. all bingo !!!
love these 5 tips. spot ons!
so awesome. my country manager visited my store. and praise it so much saying everything is 100% perfection!! and wishes our strict ceo to come look at our store. im like. .erm.. lol. no thansk.i dun wanna see himXD haha
anyway all hard work pays off yay cheers
ever felt like u gonna cry but u couldnt ..no tears ccoming out at all..
mata
25 March 2015
bad day
No 5ctips today peeps. In bed using myvphine.
I feel so distance im tired out. Im stressed
:( i don feel gd.
Stressing abtvlil t bugvthings to future things.
Gosh.
Im being wrapped ard by my fav comfy blanket at the moment. Bestvthing ever.
Keeps me warm n safen flyffy n soft
Im worried abt tix abt hotel avt life health
I shld stop
Just talk
Just wanna slp it all away now. Nit happy
Ohvya n stupid ppl destroyed my fav coat:(((((((((
V upset. V angry
Jaa mata
J
I feel so distance im tired out. Im stressed
:( i don feel gd.
Stressing abtvlil t bugvthings to future things.
Gosh.
Im being wrapped ard by my fav comfy blanket at the moment. Bestvthing ever.
Keeps me warm n safen flyffy n soft
Im worried abt tix abt hotel avt life health
I shld stop
Just talk
Just wanna slp it all away now. Nit happy
Ohvya n stupid ppl destroyed my fav coat:(((((((((
V upset. V angry
Jaa mata
J
24 March 2015
missing part from last night blog (duno what happened luckily i chek. highlight then can see the white lines with words =/ )
luckily i check. duno why last night's blog theres alot of white lines must highlght then can see the words=/ / heres the missing part... :
i saw this video form jamie oliver, and i was like... what? frozen veg is cheaper than fresh??
in sg, its diff. frozen berries and bvegies are so exp!!
bbut i understand cos shipment or sumtin2... .
gosh. how i wish tat price belongs to sg. cos. .well if i were to cook, i might use only a lil part of the cegie. then... mm... yea. if its fresh i might not cook that again for hte next few days then it wil rot. but at least frozen i can keep it in the fridge exra longer
anyway
so my rgm is leaving by end of april rih.tthe aussie one. they were thinking of what to buy for her as a farewel gift. they were giving out ideas.. then they mentioned. .she'd always wanted a singapore passport. i wa slike .awww.... =/ though shes been here 2 yrs plus alrdy.. ..yet... haiz.. .
think she din qualified for one ba.
i heard ppl says.. sg passport is one of the most powerful' passport in the worlld. and its v v difficult to get.
my fren recently also commented that (shes an air stewardness) shes in this country blah3. .and she jsut tot of how lucky she is to bbe a singaporean.
and.. ......sighs.. .cos.. .u know. our lky died ... .at 3am plus... today .
=/
i was so upset too. but... ... hey 91 yrs old... thats long enuff too... i sincerely hope. .hes reunited iwth his wife. ..
the reason how he started this positionn or somethign is cos. ..when he studied in britian ( i thihnk) , ppl look at him with colour eyes. so he decided to end this politic once and for all when he get back to sg. cos he hated it. we are all equal. why be so racist.
so yea...
i still rememebr the convo... i typed it here before too..
how he and his wife met. .and how he and his wife got married withouth informing their paretns famileis. ... wow =) so cool
then after that they got married in sg agan one more time .
he's a v good man
sad to say he left us for good now. =/
he made sg so ... wow. u knowo
he's fearless. etc....
many world leaders bows down to him
even obama praises him.
''[Australians] do have a certain fondness for your remarkable founder (Mr Lee Kuan Yew), not in spite of all his stern words about us, but perhaps because of them. Over the decades, we came rather to look forward to Lee’s regular visits, and we’ll always welcome him again. For us, they have resembled the arrival of a respected if rather forbidding uncle, come to awaken us from our indolence and insist that we be our best selves.”
— Julia Gillard, former Prime Minister of Australia
i was like thinking(when i read this).. yea my aussie ceo mentioned before. .their country(australiai) ministier and gov etc al sucks. jus tget paid only.
i wonder. .what did lky tell the aussies abt them. stern words abt them.. hmm...
anyway..
hsi wife and him love each other so much.. even when tv interviews she will stop him hallfway and wipe his sweat for him
i also mentioned this when his wife passed away.. he kisses her forehead when shes lying in the coffin. thats true lov.e
if my husband died, and i love him so deary, i will do the same. perhaps on the lips nose n forehead.
anwyay. much respects towards him... .
i truly hope his son will takever him brillantly.. .
we will miss u lky. without u theres no sg.
thaksn for making this small island shines beautifully and on par and better compared to the bigger countries out there. this is such a safe country.
thank u.
and yes. im glad i own an sg passport.
tips 41. learn her favourite drinks so you can offer her a choice of the ones that you know she already likes
42 suggest different restaurants for going out; dont put her burden of where to go on her
43 get seasons tickets for the theater, symphony, opera, ballet or some other types of performances she likes
44 create occasions when u both can dress up
45 be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outifit
mm.. 41 and 42 scores high for me.. ( high as in more than 1 point ) why author says everything is 1 point to women no matter big or small , i duno. but it ssok. not everyone is the same=)
i remmemer years ago... sammy asked what breakfast i would like to have. cos i usually says anything, he don rrly like it . he's frustrated, and then he ask me something like what i want or what. . don say anything. then im like... (in syd) i only know maccas breakfast.. ... =/ and one more is dunno what(i think i mentioned maccas and one more place. forgotet. itt hink) .
its liek. i duno what syd hav for breakfast mah... its only maccas ... then yea. i duno the foodstalls..
23 March 2015
ty and rip lky (the missing part )
heres the missing words. duno why my blog last night became all white unless i highlight it. luckily i check
starting here i thik : i saw this video form jamie oliver, and i was like... what? frozen veg is cheaper than fresh??
in sg, its diff. frozen berries and bvegies are so exp!!
bbut i understand cos shipment or sumtin2... .
gosh. how i wish tat price belongs to sg. cos. .well if i were to cook, i might use only a lil part of the cegie. then... mm... yea. if its fresh i might not cook that again for hte next few days then it wil rot. but at least frozen i can keep it in the fridge exra longer
anyway
so my rgm is leaving by end of april rih.tthe aussie one. they were thinking of what to buy for her as a farewel gift. they were giving out ideas.. then they mentioned. .she'd always wanted a singapore passport. i wa slike .awww.... =/ though shes been here 2 yrs plus alrdy.. ..yet... haiz.. .
think she din qualified for one ba.
i heard ppl says.. sg passport is one of the most powerful' passport in the worlld. and its v v difficult to get.
my fren recently also commented that (shes an air stewardness) shes in this country blah3. .and she jsut tot of how lucky she is to bbe a singaporean.
and.. ......sighs.. .cos.. .u know. our lky died ... .at 3am plus... today .
=/
i was so upset too. but... ... hey 91 yrs old... thats long enuff too... i sincerely hope. .hes reunited iwth his wife. ..
the reason how he started this positionn or somethign is cos. ..when he studied in britian ( i thihnk) , ppl look at him with colour eyes. so he decided to end this politic once and for all when he get back to sg. cos he hated it. we are all equal. why be so racist.
so yea...
i still rememebr the convo... i typed it here before too..
how he and his wife met. .and how he and his wife got married withouth informing their paretns famileis. ... wow =) so cool
then after that they got married in sg agan one more time .
he's a v good man
sad to say he left us for good now. =/
he made sg so ... wow. u knowo
he's fearless. etc....
many world leaders bows down to him
even obama praises him.
soyea....
mm.. thats abt it bah.
ok jaa mata.
no not complaining. .jsut sharing the exampless. cos yea its many yrs bacck
hesnot been msging soo i guess hes rrly usy or chilling out with his frens and stuffs..etc..
o wel. until ext tiem ba. when he's totaly free again like daysssss back
ja mata
starting here i thik : i saw this video form jamie oliver, and i was like... what? frozen veg is cheaper than fresh??
in sg, its diff. frozen berries and bvegies are so exp!!
bbut i understand cos shipment or sumtin2... .
gosh. how i wish tat price belongs to sg. cos. .well if i were to cook, i might use only a lil part of the cegie. then... mm... yea. if its fresh i might not cook that again for hte next few days then it wil rot. but at least frozen i can keep it in the fridge exra longer
anyway
so my rgm is leaving by end of april rih.tthe aussie one. they were thinking of what to buy for her as a farewel gift. they were giving out ideas.. then they mentioned. .she'd always wanted a singapore passport. i wa slike .awww.... =/ though shes been here 2 yrs plus alrdy.. ..yet... haiz.. .
think she din qualified for one ba.
i heard ppl says.. sg passport is one of the most powerful' passport in the worlld. and its v v difficult to get.
my fren recently also commented that (shes an air stewardness) shes in this country blah3. .and she jsut tot of how lucky she is to bbe a singaporean.
and.. ......sighs.. .cos.. .u know. our lky died ... .at 3am plus... today .
=/
i was so upset too. but... ... hey 91 yrs old... thats long enuff too... i sincerely hope. .hes reunited iwth his wife. ..
the reason how he started this positionn or somethign is cos. ..when he studied in britian ( i thihnk) , ppl look at him with colour eyes. so he decided to end this politic once and for all when he get back to sg. cos he hated it. we are all equal. why be so racist.
so yea...
i still rememebr the convo... i typed it here before too..
how he and his wife met. .and how he and his wife got married withouth informing their paretns famileis. ... wow =) so cool
then after that they got married in sg agan one more time .
he's a v good man
sad to say he left us for good now. =/
he made sg so ... wow. u knowo
he's fearless. etc....
many world leaders bows down to him
even obama praises him.
''[Australians] do have a certain fondness for your remarkable founder (Mr Lee Kuan Yew), not in spite of all his stern words about us, but perhaps because of them. Over the decades, we came rather to look forward to Lee’s regular visits, and we’ll always welcome him again. For us, they have resembled the arrival of a respected if rather forbidding uncle, come to awaken us from our indolence and insist that we be our best selves.”
— Julia Gillard, former Prime Minister of Australia
i was like thinking(when i read this).. yea my aussie ceo mentioned before. .their country(australiai) ministier and gov etc al sucks. jus tget paid only.
i wonder. .what did lky tell the aussies abt them. stern words abt them.. hmm...
anyway..
hsi wife and him love each other so much.. even when tv interviews she will stop him hallfway and wipe his sweat for him
i also mentioned this when his wife passed away.. he kisses her forehead when shes lying in the coffin. thats true lov.e
if my husband died, and i love him so deary, i will do the same. perhaps on the lips nose n forehead.
anwyay. much respects towards him... .
i truly hope his son will takever him brillantly.. .
we will miss u lky. without u theres no sg.
thaksn for making this small island shines beautifully and on par and better compared to the bigger countries out there. this is such a safe country.
thank u.
and yes. im glad i own an sg passport.
tips 41. learn her favourite drinks so you can offer her a choice of the ones that you know she already likes
42 suggest different restaurants for going out; dont put her burden of where to go on her
43 get seasons tickets for the theater, symphony, opera, ballet or some other types of performances she likes
44 create occasions when u both can dress up
45 be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outifit
mm.. 41 and 42 scores high for me.. ( high as in more than 1 point ) why author says everything is 1 point to women no matter big or small , i duno. but it ssok. not everyone is the same=)
i remmemer years ago... sammy asked what breakfast i would like to have. cos i usually says anything, he don rrly like it . he's frustrated, and then he ask me something like what i want or what. . don say anything. then im like... (in syd) i only know maccas breakfast.. ... =/ and one more is dunno what(i think i mentioned maccas and one more place. forgotet. itt hink) .
its liek. i duno what syd hav for breakfast mah... its only maccas ... then yea. i duno the foodstalls..
soyea....
mm.. thats abt it bah.
ok jaa mata.
no not complaining. .jsut sharing the exampless. cos yea its many yrs bacck
hesnot been msging soo i guess hes rrly usy or chilling out with his frens and stuffs..etc..
o wel. until ext tiem ba. when he's totaly free again like daysssss back
ja mata
22 March 2015
caught in the act
u know. i tried. i always. always try to look as unflattering as possible(without bf days) . oon my off days. at work no choice but to dress up. still. u know. i tucked back my haair behind my ears. i appeared aloof etc yet i still get weird stares and guys approaching me
then today. halfway talking to mum i turned and just nice, i saw this (we were at the foodcourt) guy at this roast duck stall. he's a man not uncle. i was tlaking to my mum and tuninig and i caught him there. THERE. he was whistling (or making the zuzu irritating sound i HATE the most n my life) . but i think he was trying to whistle. i said before. im not interested to turn my head and see who did that. if i heard that, i wil lwalk on without a blink of an eye.
but i just happened to turn towards his direction. adn i saw him .then he's sorta. .ya knoow laugh , the way youll react if someone caught u calling out to them while you're trying to hide. then his colleague next to him slap his back playfully saying somehting like. ..i forgot. ..maybe something like. .see la u anyhow.. etcetc (like now i saw it) . tat guy laughed (bothlaughed) while lowering his head.
i dun get it.
im wearing as v v v nromal alrdy .t shirt. shorts. (not the shorts till can see butt type eew)
and wore a specs. and no makeup. hair tucked behind my ear. its just plain normal me. nothing dressy , not pretty... i duno why guys still wanna oogle at me. tat sucks and i rrly hate it.
arghhhh seriously though.
im surprised i didnt lash out at him cos i was in a pretty tired foul mood.
i slpt late again .and yea...
i slpt in mrg in fact.
argh .
watever bah. he's lucky i didnt go up to him and confront him abt it
someitmes i wish i know how to edit vieos and all. haha. cos i like to video .liek vlog.
so fun. but the editing. ..uh huh. yea. i need someone to teach me. lol
as htough i have time too though. lol. .well.. we always do.just nieed t o make time for it
we always hav everyday excuses.. too busy too tired etcetc...... but in fact we can make it happen. ....
will u learn ur lessosn or regrets when u can no longer do the htings u could when u have the chance?
i walked towards this mag section(looking for cooking mag) .. and i saw this jamesboond old lady. the v famous one. i forgot her nameT_T
iconic name. .this white hair short hair old lady. her fa c eon the cover. and u know mag will post the covers star words right. ..
hers was... '' do not take love for granted''
she seems liek a nice old lady... and shes still alive phew! anyway...
yea... tats what alot of ppl are missing out righ tnow... taking love for granted. .
i just love how i walk across the street.. or teres that time in sammys car in syd. .i saw this old couple stil lholding hands...
u know that feeling .. old and all wrinkled up..white hair.. .still holdin ghands loveingly .my goals.
i hhope my husband in future is of that.
though for now i still wanastick to my desperate housewife goals lol. cos im not white hair yet.
i met this custoemr abt.. few weeks back? she looks liek 30s but shes 51!!!!! i was lik whattttmy colleaue was like whatttttttttttttt ... .uh huh for real peeps. no surgery of un naturalness on her face. she say she shares her acesspries with her daughter too.
omg .at51, tats my goal. but sexier !!
haha. anyway yea.. maybe in her blood bah.
even for my mum ppl also say.. wow i tot shes younger!
mm. .maybe i got that from her. actually my dad too. haha. so double the power ehXD
tips:
36. make a point of cuddling or being affectipnate sometimes without being sexual
37 be patient when she is sharing . dont lok at your watch
38 don flick the remote control to different channels when she is watchin tc with you
39 display affection in public
40 [when holding hands dont let ur hand go limp .
wooo.... this 5tips. though. i like. .
39 is v v plsu point to me. i dont care if the author say its all 1 points to all women. but this is plus points. not just 1 =)
37... ahhh tats imprt too guys.
36.. mm.. thats a good point indeed . =) uh huh. guys, learn that.
40... ahh... at times whenever ppl tired or take thigns as normal everyday lil things, they go limp.
i like to someotimes hold his hand tightly. i liek his hand alot. but someitmes yes he went limp on me.
so i understand. 40,, its definitely a PLUS point. todl ya this author is gd.
we used to like. .2 yr abck ? he suddenly shake his hand off. or i do it vice versa.
then jokingly say.. someihing like. .oh u nvr hodl properly or something smiliar. .
haha
so yea.
jaa mata
then today. halfway talking to mum i turned and just nice, i saw this (we were at the foodcourt) guy at this roast duck stall. he's a man not uncle. i was tlaking to my mum and tuninig and i caught him there. THERE. he was whistling (or making the zuzu irritating sound i HATE the most n my life) . but i think he was trying to whistle. i said before. im not interested to turn my head and see who did that. if i heard that, i wil lwalk on without a blink of an eye.
but i just happened to turn towards his direction. adn i saw him .then he's sorta. .ya knoow laugh , the way youll react if someone caught u calling out to them while you're trying to hide. then his colleague next to him slap his back playfully saying somehting like. ..i forgot. ..maybe something like. .see la u anyhow.. etcetc (like now i saw it) . tat guy laughed (bothlaughed) while lowering his head.
i dun get it.
im wearing as v v v nromal alrdy .t shirt. shorts. (not the shorts till can see butt type eew)
and wore a specs. and no makeup. hair tucked behind my ear. its just plain normal me. nothing dressy , not pretty... i duno why guys still wanna oogle at me. tat sucks and i rrly hate it.
arghhhh seriously though.
im surprised i didnt lash out at him cos i was in a pretty tired foul mood.
i slpt late again .and yea...
i slpt in mrg in fact.
argh .
watever bah. he's lucky i didnt go up to him and confront him abt it
someitmes i wish i know how to edit vieos and all. haha. cos i like to video .liek vlog.
so fun. but the editing. ..uh huh. yea. i need someone to teach me. lol
as htough i have time too though. lol. .well.. we always do.just nieed t o make time for it
we always hav everyday excuses.. too busy too tired etcetc...... but in fact we can make it happen. ....
will u learn ur lessosn or regrets when u can no longer do the htings u could when u have the chance?
i walked towards this mag section(looking for cooking mag) .. and i saw this jamesboond old lady. the v famous one. i forgot her nameT_T
iconic name. .this white hair short hair old lady. her fa c eon the cover. and u know mag will post the covers star words right. ..
hers was... '' do not take love for granted''
she seems liek a nice old lady... and shes still alive phew! anyway...
yea... tats what alot of ppl are missing out righ tnow... taking love for granted. .
i just love how i walk across the street.. or teres that time in sammys car in syd. .i saw this old couple stil lholding hands...
u know that feeling .. old and all wrinkled up..white hair.. .still holdin ghands loveingly .my goals.
i hhope my husband in future is of that.
though for now i still wanastick to my desperate housewife goals lol. cos im not white hair yet.
i met this custoemr abt.. few weeks back? she looks liek 30s but shes 51!!!!! i was lik whattttmy colleaue was like whatttttttttttttt ... .uh huh for real peeps. no surgery of un naturalness on her face. she say she shares her acesspries with her daughter too.
omg .at51, tats my goal. but sexier !!
haha. anyway yea.. maybe in her blood bah.
even for my mum ppl also say.. wow i tot shes younger!
mm. .maybe i got that from her. actually my dad too. haha. so double the power ehXD
tips:
36. make a point of cuddling or being affectipnate sometimes without being sexual
37 be patient when she is sharing . dont lok at your watch
38 don flick the remote control to different channels when she is watchin tc with you
39 display affection in public
40 [when holding hands dont let ur hand go limp .
wooo.... this 5tips. though. i like. .
39 is v v plsu point to me. i dont care if the author say its all 1 points to all women. but this is plus points. not just 1 =)
37... ahhh tats imprt too guys.
36.. mm.. thats a good point indeed . =) uh huh. guys, learn that.
40... ahh... at times whenever ppl tired or take thigns as normal everyday lil things, they go limp.
i like to someotimes hold his hand tightly. i liek his hand alot. but someitmes yes he went limp on me.
so i understand. 40,, its definitely a PLUS point. todl ya this author is gd.
we used to like. .2 yr abck ? he suddenly shake his hand off. or i do it vice versa.
then jokingly say.. someihing like. .oh u nvr hodl properly or something smiliar. .
haha
so yea.
jaa mata
21 March 2015
compliments to take in or..
recently my colleagues fren and bro dropped by. two diff colleagues two diff days
then they were like said the same thing. eh ur manager so yougn ar.
then my colleague asked them guess my age. they're like definitely younger than u( my colleagues)
my colleagues one is 20 another is 23.
im flatteredla.. bt. .at hte same time. ..i think no matter how much i tel lmyself hey guys can look but they cant touch(me) .. .i stil lrrly disliek it. its gd compliments and stuffs . i like it. dont hate it. bubt.. .i feel kiinda paiseh i guess.
evenn when walking at my wokrplace mall area.. and the tenants. omg. tel lu.. .im trying to walk diff routes to avoid their stores.
but today. as i took a diff route, this levis store guy was like calling after me forgot what he say.. hey miss wait . i think .he repeated that 3times i think. lucik,ly i hav my phoen with me and i pretended to look at phoen and walk fast2 as usual.
i duno waht he wants. i just hope he don say the same baka thing where is ntuc. can i be ur fren. etc=.=.
omg
cos that store is just right opposite my store. though far but they can still see abit bah. i nvr notice them looking or what. but soemtiems i will walk past their store in order to avoid another store.. liek that guy literally (next to my store ) can just stand outsdie n lok3. duno look at what also. omg.
left side right store now opposite stores liek that. i hope can trasnfer out soon =/
i ddi mentioned abt the ntuc weird guy right ytd .
haiz. seriously. =/
i feel.. so. not normal to walk ard soemtimes. like they keep staring. =/
i feel so uncomfortable.
anyway.
yea. guess up till now im still not used to compliments bah. jsut so shy. even with customers asking me eh u so youn g parttime ah. how old are u. i keep quiet if i can or change topic. cos i knew they'll say oh u look so young. omg i cant tell. .etc.
for me its compliment. but... its so predictabble alrdy. .and .. yet i stil lduno how to react to that. im like. no..then thank u.. .
duno what else to say. meep.
imnot boasting or anythign .just wanna share my feelings n tots.
din tot much of that ti lthe levis store ppl also .. .haiz
anyway... gues si wil lavoid their pathways bah... rather walk past my left side store. at least look nvr tlak.
guess he's busy whoel day again. o well.. .wah tto do. like that bah
tips 31. wash her car
32. wash your car and clean up the interior before a date with her
33 wash before having sex or put on a cologne if she likes that.
34 take her side when she is upset with someone
35 offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three)
ah... .nu,ber 34... yup. i can get a lil disappointed if he take the side or even not intentionally of someone else if i were to u know.. maybe point out somehting negative abt someone...
but.. o well. thats to score points. but ya. .rather want the truth.
later he keep lying he takes my side but in truth he's thinking im in the wrong. .cos of this and that.
gosh ts been pretty warm due to psi again....
o well...
a month abbck it was pretty cold . .now warm.. dang u psi
jaa mata
then they were like said the same thing. eh ur manager so yougn ar.
then my colleague asked them guess my age. they're like definitely younger than u( my colleagues)
my colleagues one is 20 another is 23.
im flatteredla.. bt. .at hte same time. ..i think no matter how much i tel lmyself hey guys can look but they cant touch(me) .. .i stil lrrly disliek it. its gd compliments and stuffs . i like it. dont hate it. bubt.. .i feel kiinda paiseh i guess.
evenn when walking at my wokrplace mall area.. and the tenants. omg. tel lu.. .im trying to walk diff routes to avoid their stores.
but today. as i took a diff route, this levis store guy was like calling after me forgot what he say.. hey miss wait . i think .he repeated that 3times i think. lucik,ly i hav my phoen with me and i pretended to look at phoen and walk fast2 as usual.
i duno waht he wants. i just hope he don say the same baka thing where is ntuc. can i be ur fren. etc=.=.
omg
cos that store is just right opposite my store. though far but they can still see abit bah. i nvr notice them looking or what. but soemtiems i will walk past their store in order to avoid another store.. liek that guy literally (next to my store ) can just stand outsdie n lok3. duno look at what also. omg.
left side right store now opposite stores liek that. i hope can trasnfer out soon =/
i ddi mentioned abt the ntuc weird guy right ytd .
haiz. seriously. =/
i feel.. so. not normal to walk ard soemtimes. like they keep staring. =/
i feel so uncomfortable.
anyway.
yea. guess up till now im still not used to compliments bah. jsut so shy. even with customers asking me eh u so youn g parttime ah. how old are u. i keep quiet if i can or change topic. cos i knew they'll say oh u look so young. omg i cant tell. .etc.
for me its compliment. but... its so predictabble alrdy. .and .. yet i stil lduno how to react to that. im like. no..then thank u.. .
duno what else to say. meep.
imnot boasting or anythign .just wanna share my feelings n tots.
din tot much of that ti lthe levis store ppl also .. .haiz
anyway... gues si wil lavoid their pathways bah... rather walk past my left side store. at least look nvr tlak.
guess he's busy whoel day again. o well.. .wah tto do. like that bah
tips 31. wash her car
32. wash your car and clean up the interior before a date with her
33 wash before having sex or put on a cologne if she likes that.
34 take her side when she is upset with someone
35 offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three)
ah... .nu,ber 34... yup. i can get a lil disappointed if he take the side or even not intentionally of someone else if i were to u know.. maybe point out somehting negative abt someone...
but.. o well. thats to score points. but ya. .rather want the truth.
later he keep lying he takes my side but in truth he's thinking im in the wrong. .cos of this and that.
gosh ts been pretty warm due to psi again....
o well...
a month abbck it was pretty cold . .now warm.. dang u psi
jaa mata
20 March 2015
to fren or not
so tired but decidede to blog abit bah
the other day my colleague suddenly asked how my partner called me.
or addresses me. or each other. cos i think tat time she was talking abt her bf alling her baby....etcetc. then i say aw so swt n cute.
then i tel lher la. she say awww so swtXD
i told her also liek at uss when he went toilet, i offer to take his plastic bag. then he casually just passed me and say thank u baby.
its liek those lil moments or things , that makes it so sweet =) and rrly gushes my hearrtout yea. if that make sense lol
lil thngs to me like that makes me happy and go naww =) haha
he's been sweeter than usual lately.
whihc is gd.
mm.. yea.
haha
i recently had this fren started contactin gme.
and. .i thin kmaybe its ok bah. just felt abit weird. cos. .u knwo how i trust my feelings sometimes ya.. most of the times. and. .
he 's married. and now going through some probs so now no longer staying with his wife. he got kids also. feel sad for his kids=( sighs....
this is what i meant by the post in fb i was tlaking abt earlier.. .
marriage is meant to be forever.. why ppl forget that..
so yea. he's v v gd fren of mine since my atz job itme.
hes the kind of person where there wont be any silence. alotof thigns to talk abt. and v v funny guy.
thats why he can get along well with anyone
. he still rememebr my bros name. im like omg
nyway.
mayeb im thinkng too much bah.
kk. gona rest soon .im havin gcravings of the spicy korean noodles againXD
omg what if one day im pregnant, and i crave for chilli? sooo not gd for my babay. .i know. random tot lol.
tips to gain 1 point each =)
26: tell her i love you'' at least a couple of times in a day
27 make the bed and clean up the bedroom
28 notice when the trash is full and offer to empty it
29 if she washes your socks turn your socks right side out so she doesnt have to
30 when you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number where you can be reached and to let her know you arrived safely
gdluck and stay safe peeps
another girl got murdered in melb today at a park. its a random attack.
they finally caught the guy.
ighs. shes so young=/ she was playing music too. ppl walking with music in their ears cannot prevent an attackt from the attackers.
in evening time i think. 6ish or so. i think .
so sad.. .even a walk in park...u gotta be v careful. said one of the.. .duno polic e or who. its sad. but u jsut gotta ( be careful even when walking)
jaa mata
the other day my colleague suddenly asked how my partner called me.
or addresses me. or each other. cos i think tat time she was talking abt her bf alling her baby....etcetc. then i say aw so swt n cute.
then i tel lher la. she say awww so swtXD
i told her also liek at uss when he went toilet, i offer to take his plastic bag. then he casually just passed me and say thank u baby.
its liek those lil moments or things , that makes it so sweet =) and rrly gushes my hearrtout yea. if that make sense lol
lil thngs to me like that makes me happy and go naww =) haha
he's been sweeter than usual lately.
whihc is gd.
mm.. yea.
haha
i recently had this fren started contactin gme.
and. .i thin kmaybe its ok bah. just felt abit weird. cos. .u knwo how i trust my feelings sometimes ya.. most of the times. and. .
he 's married. and now going through some probs so now no longer staying with his wife. he got kids also. feel sad for his kids=( sighs....
this is what i meant by the post in fb i was tlaking abt earlier.. .
marriage is meant to be forever.. why ppl forget that..
so yea. he's v v gd fren of mine since my atz job itme.
hes the kind of person where there wont be any silence. alotof thigns to talk abt. and v v funny guy.
thats why he can get along well with anyone
. he still rememebr my bros name. im like omg
nyway.
mayeb im thinkng too much bah.
kk. gona rest soon .im havin gcravings of the spicy korean noodles againXD
omg what if one day im pregnant, and i crave for chilli? sooo not gd for my babay. .i know. random tot lol.
tips to gain 1 point each =)
26: tell her i love you'' at least a couple of times in a day
27 make the bed and clean up the bedroom
28 notice when the trash is full and offer to empty it
29 if she washes your socks turn your socks right side out so she doesnt have to
30 when you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number where you can be reached and to let her know you arrived safely
gdluck and stay safe peeps
another girl got murdered in melb today at a park. its a random attack.
they finally caught the guy.
ighs. shes so young=/ she was playing music too. ppl walking with music in their ears cannot prevent an attackt from the attackers.
in evening time i think. 6ish or so. i think .
so sad.. .even a walk in park...u gotta be v careful. said one of the.. .duno polic e or who. its sad. but u jsut gotta ( be careful even when walking)
jaa mata
17 March 2015
technology probs ( between couples)
s tired and slpy.. ya know.. been pushing away to blog.. so yea gomen.
haiz...
just cos of work and personal probs and stuffs..
erm.. hav i mention /this customer i served. . was talking abt melb trip. i asked her hows it. .she say boring. cos melb is like. .peaceful' and v quiet. even so after shops closed at evening. early evening.
it smore of a .. .views.. .u knwo. .mountains or seas..etc. other than thaat nothing much.
so yea boring.
then somehow we chatted till abt saftyness... comparisons. she say 'sydnesy is dangerous', ( compared to melb or something) i wa slike. ...o..k... yea. .h huh.. .she say. .alot of duno what.. robberies. ..and stuffs..crimes.. im like.. o..k...
haha. XD
din tell her igo there onoce a year
theres this commercial.. i \watched. its about couples. ..and its as though tey'er invited to this place. each couple was told of how this new app is gonna make their love lives better.
bblah3.. .say so much gd stuff.. in the end they revealed. .its the off button. power off.
off ur phone. spend more quality time wit ur patner.
this woman says.. sorry(to her partner) ... nto just her actually. vice versa. and saying the one hour i spedn on my phone, i couldve spend it with u instead. those precious itme...
some cried too tho.
sammy used to be on his phones game al lthe itme when he's in sg with me. i didnt like it that much. duno why i din tell him ha
but yea... now i find that he doesnt do that much often anymore.. so yea. .thats a plus point. imagine even in bed. ..ur partner still using internet.. etc.. = / lifes so short. lil years left. why waste all those time. why on ur death bed you say.. .wish i have more time with u..every secs matters...''
u now hoow families are eating nowadys. .checking on phones.talk abt work only .et. or blah3...
i was eatin gone day .. .and this family next to me.. .elder bro lill sis. paretns they were tlaking n playing guessing game. exp bro hnit sis.. black and white. .likes bamboo etc. ..she will hav to guess which animal is that.
parents joins in too!! wow.
i find the, noisy. then.... ..wow .tat bro.. .gave his outer wear to his mum when she say she feels cold. then she wears it liek though .. .they're frens. non nid to say. .no nd la.. .its ok.. etc
yea. impressive.
they are so.. .connective.
unliek this kid i saw at parkway weeks ba ck. ,mum had to ask persmission if its ok to return her her ipad cos boy is playing. no wifi is shes gone r something. boy shoutd. and angry. etc. hello .as a parent why u nid to seek permission form ur kid???
omg. that was like. ... wow. im so not gonna be that kind of parent. or mum .who cant veen handle a child. somemore he's so into the game u can tell he's addicted.
his dad nvr rrly scold hmi or what.
somemore paretns ask. .where u wanna eat ar?
is he a king? O.o
he shld be abt.. 5yrs old or so i think
haiz. what a big diff between a non bbalance and bbalanc family....
and in the end after all. .its also ur genes. . t plays a part too ba?
when i went doc.. .ytd.
this lil cute girl was crying. lil boy eating fruit sharing with sis.
father ah beng with tattoos. mum a chinese.. .malaysian i thiNK '?
girl keep wanting to goiinto clinic with mu,. her dad carries her she keep crying dislike. etcet. ..girl so cute.but v irritating like u wanna hit her too meep. gomen.
they quarrel loudly outside. blah3.. .dadsay.. u want me hit her in public ? (the girl so young she only cry and ehe eh ehe h.. .she cant talk i htink ..bro in kindergarden) ... if i hit her now(in public) , he said. don regret . bboth of them .. .straight on hot headed. mum not like soft kind k. so yea.
ah lian and ah beng bah. but both such cute kids. .=( yet. ..sighs.. .i rlry wish.. .that they can grow up to be better perons. not another ah lians or ah bends liek their parents
my colleague.. studying law. yet decided to work fulltime wiwth us.
she say.. .today suddenly she mention) her sis and cousin and duno whoo also..
had diploma.. but all end up working for sales or duno hwat event planer ar.
i asked her.. .why>> ? ? diploma right. she sayyea. .they not ready for fulltiem work yet.
im like.. o. k, ... mm.. .
but wouldnt tht be a waste of money youth and time to... u know. ..work at someplace esle. ..
thats only for ppl who study for the sake of studies.
so yea.
sometiems.. .u have and nid to go towards ur passionsm.
eeven if menaing. ..u inow. .youre not gonna be a lawyer in the end...
at elast.. thats whats gonna make you happy at hte end of the day
my day.... =/ today sucjs. .headoffice ppl...... not as ffrenly as frmo my previous company..
''she didnt even bother to keep the baskets''
wth. lon gstory short
if u wanat us to sedn a pic, tell us straight away. hide ur thingys.
or maybe im so stupid yea. ... sighs...
whats done been done so yea..
cant bother to explain
no wonder both me and my sg rgm thinks that the aussie at our company is so slow and lazy at working.
they are so mean.
work here la. in my smaller store.
work for a month then u tell me bother or not bother. f them ,
today my colleagu told me its the first time she heard me sa the f word
i cried. ..and yea.. wahtvere.
o well...
mata
tips :
21 notice when she is tired or upset and ask whatshe has to do. then offer to helpp by doing a few of her'' to do'' items
22. when goingn out, ask if there is anything she wants you to pick up at the store , and and rememeber to pick it up
23 Let her know when you are planning to take a leave or a nap
24 give her four hugs a day
25 call her form work to ask how she is or ot share something exciting or to tell her ''i love you''
ahh... sometimes he will aks what u wanna get when im in supermarket with hi..
sometimes he will let me know is he's taking naps ..
so.. chsd gorsam
he ha a v happy wonderufl family even if he loks bad on tv..and fierce. ..etc
i rrly admire him for that .marrying his wifey and.. yea. tryign to keep a close connection with his kids even when they're growing up now... from teens.. they look liek thyr'e best frens haha.
mades allthat efforts yea.
even if your eso buusy with media. .. cooking shows... etc. .you still make sur eu spend time with wife and kids. that.. .yea. v admirable
today sammy sonice. even wanna skype me.. hoep this goes on .
just nid trust, loveand truths peeps..
he ha a v happy wonderufl family even if he loks bad on tv..and fierce. ..etc
i rrly admire him for that .marrying his wifey and.. yea. tryign to keep a close connection with his kids even when they're growing up now... from teens.. they look liek thyr'e best frens haha.
mades allthat efforts yea.
even if your eso buusy with media. .. cooking shows... etc. .you still make sur eu spend time with wife and kids. that.. .yea. v admirable
today sammy sonice. even wanna skype me.. hoep this goes on .
just nid trust, loveand truths peeps..
mata
14 March 2015
fake face
so i noticed this korean youtbe makeup guru.. .recently.. and. .
at frst i was liek. how come shes so pretty and.. her bbreasts look abit.. mm.. not so naatural.. .then. .as i wacth momre of her vids.. .when shes without makeup on, i realized... definitelhy one of her eye lid had surgery on .
yea. u can tell the diff so .. obvious at least to me. i dun . it liek in pics and all u cant tell. but when u see the live hd video, u can tell or i c an tell right away. somethigns not right with the lid.
ike. .one of it is deeper .. cut' ... if u get what i mena.
so yea.. .was kinda disappointed she underwent surgery.. but. .o well .mos tof koreans does=/
however i don detest her. but jsut htat. .now i know how they look like in clos eup hd real life.
eve this girl from onf of famouse korean gril group... she was doing abit of makeup.. maybe advertising it.. etc.. saying no makeup frmo say to night look.. then. from the start, she alrdy wore eyeliner and eyebrows mah! its actually .. .nana from after school . i new cos sammy showed me her barefaced pic once.
so yea. i was liek. huh ? thats her bare face? cannot be. cos her brows fuller.. eeys and face brighter than her bare face pic. nowadasy ppl lie or companies lies in order to get business. dang it. so ashamed man .if me i wont do tat kind of thing. like why put makeup on alrdy then in video say bareface etc. =.= wth
omg. my last proper off was on last week friday. so glad gonna off properly tmr. well now 131am liao so ya
as in todya bah?
tips again...
16. whenver u nid to pull away, let her know that youll be ba ck or that you need some time to think about things.
17. when youe cooled off and you come back, talk about what was bothering you in a respectful, non blaming way, so she doesnt imagine the worst.
18 offer to build a fire in winter time
19 when she talkes to you, put down the magazne or turn off the tv and give her your full attention
20 if she usually washes the dishes, occasionally offer to wash the dishes especiallly fi she is tired that day
ahh.. 18 is so swt.. .19... uh uh .. .gotta do that mate.
duno was it my first visit to syd... theres this time .we wer in starsbucks .or coffeebean .in syd. he hold up newspaper.. like almos covering his face).. i was trying to talk to him.. i was talking alrdy... .and.. he was like readin gnewsaper.. .and. ..yea. i was pretty hurt. but.. .o well. ...then .. yea. what else can i do. play phone lor.
so yea. that pointed, this author got it. or maybe his wife told him ha
jaa mata
at frst i was liek. how come shes so pretty and.. her bbreasts look abit.. mm.. not so naatural.. .then. .as i wacth momre of her vids.. .when shes without makeup on, i realized... definitelhy one of her eye lid had surgery on .
yea. u can tell the diff so .. obvious at least to me. i dun . it liek in pics and all u cant tell. but when u see the live hd video, u can tell or i c an tell right away. somethigns not right with the lid.
ike. .one of it is deeper .. cut' ... if u get what i mena.
so yea.. .was kinda disappointed she underwent surgery.. but. .o well .mos tof koreans does=/
however i don detest her. but jsut htat. .now i know how they look like in clos eup hd real life.
eve this girl from onf of famouse korean gril group... she was doing abit of makeup.. maybe advertising it.. etc.. saying no makeup frmo say to night look.. then. from the start, she alrdy wore eyeliner and eyebrows mah! its actually .. .nana from after school . i new cos sammy showed me her barefaced pic once.
so yea. i was liek. huh ? thats her bare face? cannot be. cos her brows fuller.. eeys and face brighter than her bare face pic. nowadasy ppl lie or companies lies in order to get business. dang it. so ashamed man .if me i wont do tat kind of thing. like why put makeup on alrdy then in video say bareface etc. =.= wth
omg. my last proper off was on last week friday. so glad gonna off properly tmr. well now 131am liao so ya
as in todya bah?
tips again...
16. whenver u nid to pull away, let her know that youll be ba ck or that you need some time to think about things.
17. when youe cooled off and you come back, talk about what was bothering you in a respectful, non blaming way, so she doesnt imagine the worst.
18 offer to build a fire in winter time
19 when she talkes to you, put down the magazne or turn off the tv and give her your full attention
20 if she usually washes the dishes, occasionally offer to wash the dishes especiallly fi she is tired that day
ahh.. 18 is so swt.. .19... uh uh .. .gotta do that mate.
duno was it my first visit to syd... theres this time .we wer in starsbucks .or coffeebean .in syd. he hold up newspaper.. like almos covering his face).. i was trying to talk to him.. i was talking alrdy... .and.. he was like readin gnewsaper.. .and. ..yea. i was pretty hurt. but.. .o well. ...then .. yea. what else can i do. play phone lor.
so yea. that pointed, this author got it. or maybe his wife told him ha
jaa mata
12 March 2015
insane work schedule morning shifts
my days been so long and...i duno how i overcome this either.. .ytd was my fifth day shifts straight . today my off. but
so lets begin with tues. ..7AM - 7Pm then wed 8am meeting till 7pm and today supposed to be off but its as though im working halfday
545 am till 1245pm
uh huh
=/
im so tired. =/
luckily the angmoh rm suddenly dropped by if not,.. duno bah. abit paiseh to go. somemore the sg rm like.. haha kinda let me go when tat angmoh rm asked if she snow lettin gme go or what els.e XD
cos when i stand there my sg rm sasked ..i wanna help he risit. cos she did say IF I WAN to go i can go. bubt paiseh la. why cant she say ok u can go back now.
haiyo
anyway
so n ice my colleague bf came down in the store look for her dinner together . eh lunch bah. then purposely went starucks cos the guys there very cheeky. malays. one of the guy liek her. then her bf purposely bring her there XD lol
like arm ard her tight. order for her drinks hahaha. then the guys kept quiet XD
so funy la
anywya
yea. tough days bah. just glad tthis shld be over soon? =/ huu
so fast half day gone liao. i was so hungry but only had old chang kee. cos hunger pang is over just slight dizziness but nothing too serious bah
w
k.. heresanother 5 tips
11.offer to help her when she is tired
12. schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesnt have to rush
13 when u are going to be late, call her and let her know
14 when she asksfor support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.
15 whenever her feelings have been hurt, gve her some empathy and tell her 'im sorry u feel hurt'' ten be silent ; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. dont offer solutions or explanationss why her hurt is not your fault.
i haven book tix yet.. hope the price wont go up much..
cant wait for holiday though
think au rgm forgot she told me before. she was like saying.. when i quit my previous job, our ceo gets a call from my previous ceo. asking him. 'hey whats going on?' one your girl poached oour girl(team member) ....''
i mean its an honour la. for u know. ceo to call another ceo cos i uqit. so yea. i woulve nvr imagine that. ha
omg. i just learned that..... my fierce strict au rgm will be gone =((((( she sleaving sg and back to australia. and... thats in april .shes going ba ck to au for a state manager posotion . huu. why so sudden =/ . sobx.so sad. cos she sv vgood even though shes super scary and.. .no patience etc
im kidna happy in a way that i wont be so stresed out if i were to work under her one dya. but then again.. .so sad....
its liek shes going bakc there for a further up her career. but stil lsame company la. but .rgm...mm.. .as a state manager is higher rannk than rgm?
omg. our new rgm... is in her late 20s. shes been working with out ceos since she was 15!!! (new rgm whos takin gover this au rgm) . omg i shoudlve born in au and work with this company when im stil la teenager sia. =.= soemmroe this ceo also work his way up and owns company shares. .hes'.. fromfulltime position i think .
haha heard the ladies say our au rgm wanted a singaporean passport. lol. ikr. its v sought after. so difficult to have one. im lucky enuff to own one
mm.. crying abit =/
oh .so menaing i can go hiney birdette alrdy. ha. jk=.=
mm.. .so yea. thats abt it. hope to see her soon. sighs
but yea. ..some gd company.. if u work with them since early... u mmight rrly becocme ceo of that company one day. just work hard n don give up.
=so lucky.. .15s and work under ceos .. .adn... yea. bright future aeahd i sense
luckily shes still with this companyl. no wonde ri was like. .don thin kshe willleve this cmpany leh. cos the ceo very nice. and this company is v rich.
ha
kk.. .gonna dry my eyes now. .sammy still no answer yet =/
i wonder if his frens celebrated for him.. he nvr mention anything so yea.. hopefully his best fren did..
i think. .. sometimes its ..always nice to ..send a few moments.. .even for a coupe of seconds.to truly hug ur love one.
like.. the one i had wiht msamy when he first surprised me at my home.. .
so nice.
like. jus thug ..if youre a guy and shes shorter, .. .walk over ot her. and hug her. wrap both of ur arms over her shoulders and squeeze hard tight.. stand. and stay there for abit. don hav to say anything ether. then give a tight squeeze and say. .i lov eu.
=P
even if youve been married fo r many yrs, or so. .its still important to have this kind of a precious connections..and appreciations..betwee couples... and. .yea. i rrly like that alot
jaa mata
when theres no trust.. theres nothing
so why hide
so lets begin with tues. ..7AM - 7Pm then wed 8am meeting till 7pm and today supposed to be off but its as though im working halfday
545 am till 1245pm
uh huh
=/
im so tired. =/
luckily the angmoh rm suddenly dropped by if not,.. duno bah. abit paiseh to go. somemore the sg rm like.. haha kinda let me go when tat angmoh rm asked if she snow lettin gme go or what els.e XD
cos when i stand there my sg rm sasked ..i wanna help he risit. cos she did say IF I WAN to go i can go. bubt paiseh la. why cant she say ok u can go back now.
haiyo
anyway
so n ice my colleague bf came down in the store look for her dinner together . eh lunch bah. then purposely went starucks cos the guys there very cheeky. malays. one of the guy liek her. then her bf purposely bring her there XD lol
like arm ard her tight. order for her drinks hahaha. then the guys kept quiet XD
so funy la
anywya
yea. tough days bah. just glad tthis shld be over soon? =/ huu
so fast half day gone liao. i was so hungry but only had old chang kee. cos hunger pang is over just slight dizziness but nothing too serious bah
w
k.. heresanother 5 tips
11.offer to help her when she is tired
12. schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesnt have to rush
13 when u are going to be late, call her and let her know
14 when she asksfor support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.
15 whenever her feelings have been hurt, gve her some empathy and tell her 'im sorry u feel hurt'' ten be silent ; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. dont offer solutions or explanationss why her hurt is not your fault.
i haven book tix yet.. hope the price wont go up much..
cant wait for holiday though
think au rgm forgot she told me before. she was like saying.. when i quit my previous job, our ceo gets a call from my previous ceo. asking him. 'hey whats going on?' one your girl poached oour girl(team member) ....''
i mean its an honour la. for u know. ceo to call another ceo cos i uqit. so yea. i woulve nvr imagine that. ha
omg. i just learned that..... my fierce strict au rgm will be gone =((((( she sleaving sg and back to australia. and... thats in april .shes going ba ck to au for a state manager posotion . huu. why so sudden =/ . sobx.so sad. cos she sv vgood even though shes super scary and.. .no patience etc
im kidna happy in a way that i wont be so stresed out if i were to work under her one dya. but then again.. .so sad....
its liek shes going bakc there for a further up her career. but stil lsame company la. but .rgm...mm.. .as a state manager is higher rannk than rgm?
omg. our new rgm... is in her late 20s. shes been working with out ceos since she was 15!!! (new rgm whos takin gover this au rgm) . omg i shoudlve born in au and work with this company when im stil la teenager sia. =.= soemmroe this ceo also work his way up and owns company shares. .hes'.. fromfulltime position i think .
haha heard the ladies say our au rgm wanted a singaporean passport. lol. ikr. its v sought after. so difficult to have one. im lucky enuff to own one
mm.. crying abit =/
oh .so menaing i can go hiney birdette alrdy. ha. jk=.=
mm.. .so yea. thats abt it. hope to see her soon. sighs
but yea. ..some gd company.. if u work with them since early... u mmight rrly becocme ceo of that company one day. just work hard n don give up.
=so lucky.. .15s and work under ceos .. .adn... yea. bright future aeahd i sense
luckily shes still with this companyl. no wonde ri was like. .don thin kshe willleve this cmpany leh. cos the ceo very nice. and this company is v rich.
ha
kk.. .gonna dry my eyes now. .sammy still no answer yet =/
i wonder if his frens celebrated for him.. he nvr mention anything so yea.. hopefully his best fren did..
i think. .. sometimes its ..always nice to ..send a few moments.. .even for a coupe of seconds.to truly hug ur love one.
like.. the one i had wiht msamy when he first surprised me at my home.. .
so nice.
like. jus thug ..if youre a guy and shes shorter, .. .walk over ot her. and hug her. wrap both of ur arms over her shoulders and squeeze hard tight.. stand. and stay there for abit. don hav to say anything ether. then give a tight squeeze and say. .i lov eu.
=P
even if youve been married fo r many yrs, or so. .its still important to have this kind of a precious connections..and appreciations..betwee couples... and. .yea. i rrly like that alot
jaa mata
when theres no trust.. theres nothing
so why hide
09 March 2015
nightmares again =/ / tips again
ytd i think .im like looking through hotels alrdy.
i mmay not be going to another new country. but i don rrly mind actually. i like sydney alot lol .
anywayyyyy XD
if only can live there. haha
even this canadian youtuber having some shitty probs with the immgration ppl there. she lives there...few years liao ba. i wonder if u have to renew every now and then. shes living with her bf at the moment. anyway
gosh this is gonan be a real hectic week =( im so slpy. hav to wakey v early these few days straghtttt
mm.. wnoder how sammy gonna celebrate his bday.. .rrly hope he will ahva gd one this year. .and gd things will happen
i had a nightmare again. its always the same opening. =/ diff places .
me in slping position. then i know i'lll be in trouble when suddenly my blankie suck tight ard me wrapping me tightly in one sec)
i rrly dislike these weird dreams. i offered another joss stick. that time ..after offering abt a week plusish im ok. now its happening again =((( sighs
woke up didnt dare to move. then slowly turn ard cover blankie..don wanna look ard too much as though sumtin is watching me. i tel lmyself ok its my imagination
just occured to me that montsh ago in my rrom hwislt getting ready for work htat weird eerie feelin gvery strong like somebody behind me watching .danng it man =(
i don like that. but whatever bah,
i have no control for now.
so yea. see how.
anyway
haz
mm... oh ok.. so yea. those tips i shared the other time. the first one is great though.
like. ..i duno abt the others. but aint that the sweetest thing if ur happy or love one came home not charning phhone first. just put down bag and look fo ru.. honey im home. hug and kissy.
hows ur day he ask?
aww how sswt right=))
this author ar.. rrly incredible. he also seek his wife thoughts on this book. so yea.
very nice
if all couple sread this book i tell u...
im not a reader by nature. but im makin gan effort to read bit by bit.
so here's the next 5 tips
6 .bring her cut flowers as surprise as well as special occasions
7. plan a date several days in advance ,rather than waiting for friday night and asking her what she wants to do
8. if she generally ,ales dinner or if its her turn and she seems tired or really nusy, offer to make dinner.
9. compliment her on how she looks.
10 validate her feelings when she is upset
woooo i only made a few espelling mistakes whilst nto looking at keyboard whilst i typed out the tips haha
oh... first time he came to my store as in recently,) he msg me u look gd btw. XD yea htat makes me very happy hahaha.
cos he always say i dress not v nice XD lol
but yea. thats gd. ahh.. ..but copliment ppl must be sincere la.
tats why his one nice sincere compli,ment make me so happy haha
u know rght. how over hte past years someitmes chatting with aunties wil lsuddenly (nad even this uncle ) mentioned their sons. asked me my age. say their son's age. say they are single etc.. .
lol
im like ..ohh..o...k...XD
very cut ela they all .
then this auntie. not rrly local. i cant understand her accent totally. she say her maid form taiwan jealous of her..etc. duno isit shes thegf of her husbad or what. etc. she ask me not to hire maids from taiwan. and don get too close to them .cos her maid get so close to her. tin teh end blah2 duno waht happened.
and she say now she look so pale. cos of this matter. shes 55. she say luckily she don have daughter. something.
if i hav emaid in future, which i rrly doubt so. don want either bah. unless hubby want. must make sure they not pretty . lol
think i might be going for braces this end of year or early next year.
my bottom teeths. .hauzi.. .im pretty sure they were straight. cos of my wisdom long story i think thats wsdom tooth, i can feel.. ...and thats why its now. .not so even =( huuuu
very sad.
so yea i mght do it. but im so afraid of wisdom removal sugery.. .
braces put on the pains. oh god. ..those pains.. .
tightening.. etc. i asked my frens alrdy. huu
the money.. .haiz. alot . don ask=(
but the painssssss omg....
o.m.g......
omg i forgot to mention this so long liao.
i went to my fren's bday kbox celebration and....
my fren forced me ( don feellike singing that day)
to sing jap song. guessed what. the song no lyrics siaaa my first tiem... sang a jap song without any wordings at all in the screen. no hiragana... o words etc whatsoever. but. i was pretty proud o myself hahaha. thoug not perfect, but.. i pretty mch reemebr it yayyyyyy
omg. why this proud moment i forgot..
one of my frendon want to wear braces cos.. have to take off many of her teeths.. )happenes to all of us)
but.. she sstill confident and ...ye... i guess.. .fter all. .it all come sdown to urself...
but yea admire her.
jaa mata =)
i mmay not be going to another new country. but i don rrly mind actually. i like sydney alot lol .
anywayyyyy XD
if only can live there. haha
even this canadian youtuber having some shitty probs with the immgration ppl there. she lives there...few years liao ba. i wonder if u have to renew every now and then. shes living with her bf at the moment. anyway
gosh this is gonan be a real hectic week =( im so slpy. hav to wakey v early these few days straghtttt
mm.. wnoder how sammy gonna celebrate his bday.. .rrly hope he will ahva gd one this year. .and gd things will happen
i had a nightmare again. its always the same opening. =/ diff places .
me in slping position. then i know i'lll be in trouble when suddenly my blankie suck tight ard me wrapping me tightly in one sec)
i rrly dislike these weird dreams. i offered another joss stick. that time ..after offering abt a week plusish im ok. now its happening again =((( sighs
woke up didnt dare to move. then slowly turn ard cover blankie..don wanna look ard too much as though sumtin is watching me. i tel lmyself ok its my imagination
just occured to me that montsh ago in my rrom hwislt getting ready for work htat weird eerie feelin gvery strong like somebody behind me watching .danng it man =(
i don like that. but whatever bah,
i have no control for now.
so yea. see how.
anyway
haz
mm... oh ok.. so yea. those tips i shared the other time. the first one is great though.
like. ..i duno abt the others. but aint that the sweetest thing if ur happy or love one came home not charning phhone first. just put down bag and look fo ru.. honey im home. hug and kissy.
hows ur day he ask?
aww how sswt right=))
this author ar.. rrly incredible. he also seek his wife thoughts on this book. so yea.
very nice
if all couple sread this book i tell u...
im not a reader by nature. but im makin gan effort to read bit by bit.
so here's the next 5 tips
6 .bring her cut flowers as surprise as well as special occasions
7. plan a date several days in advance ,rather than waiting for friday night and asking her what she wants to do
8. if she generally ,ales dinner or if its her turn and she seems tired or really nusy, offer to make dinner.
9. compliment her on how she looks.
10 validate her feelings when she is upset
woooo i only made a few espelling mistakes whilst nto looking at keyboard whilst i typed out the tips haha
oh... first time he came to my store as in recently,) he msg me u look gd btw. XD yea htat makes me very happy hahaha.
cos he always say i dress not v nice XD lol
but yea. thats gd. ahh.. ..but copliment ppl must be sincere la.
tats why his one nice sincere compli,ment make me so happy haha
u know rght. how over hte past years someitmes chatting with aunties wil lsuddenly (nad even this uncle ) mentioned their sons. asked me my age. say their son's age. say they are single etc.. .
lol
im like ..ohh..o...k...XD
very cut ela they all .
then this auntie. not rrly local. i cant understand her accent totally. she say her maid form taiwan jealous of her..etc. duno isit shes thegf of her husbad or what. etc. she ask me not to hire maids from taiwan. and don get too close to them .cos her maid get so close to her. tin teh end blah2 duno waht happened.
and she say now she look so pale. cos of this matter. shes 55. she say luckily she don have daughter. something.
if i hav emaid in future, which i rrly doubt so. don want either bah. unless hubby want. must make sure they not pretty . lol
think i might be going for braces this end of year or early next year.
my bottom teeths. .hauzi.. .im pretty sure they were straight. cos of my wisdom long story i think thats wsdom tooth, i can feel.. ...and thats why its now. .not so even =( huuuu
very sad.
so yea i mght do it. but im so afraid of wisdom removal sugery.. .
braces put on the pains. oh god. ..those pains.. .
tightening.. etc. i asked my frens alrdy. huu
the money.. .haiz. alot . don ask=(
but the painssssss omg....
o.m.g......
omg i forgot to mention this so long liao.
i went to my fren's bday kbox celebration and....
my fren forced me ( don feellike singing that day)
to sing jap song. guessed what. the song no lyrics siaaa my first tiem... sang a jap song without any wordings at all in the screen. no hiragana... o words etc whatsoever. but. i was pretty proud o myself hahaha. thoug not perfect, but.. i pretty mch reemebr it yayyyyyy
omg. why this proud moment i forgot..
one of my frendon want to wear braces cos.. have to take off many of her teeths.. )happenes to all of us)
but.. she sstill confident and ...ye... i guess.. .fter all. .it all come sdown to urself...
but yea admire her.
jaa mata =)
06 March 2015
continue the read.. / how to gain points with woman u love
i cant wait to finish this book. .ive mmore books to go
my day just consists of busy working. ..cant believe he's gone now.. =/
mm.. yea. liek a dream. .
oh that night. this indian man. .husband of indian family.. .gosh . his arms liek touching against mine. so disgusted. i duno why they are like that.
when i was at kk, that indian uses elbows to sort of like bump into my boobs k. dang it
so i was readin gup to.. .ok. this author conotinued.. cos twice a week he will or once) bring his wife to movies date. one night his wife suddenly busrt out. u always go where u wan i nvr get to go where i want.
he was shocked cos he tot he gained points' for htat becos she always says yes whenever he ask her to movie .
but in fact, he realised. .shes been dropping hitns. ..say.. he drove passed or hwat. .she;l lcomment. .that opera is in town now... .or.. that new lay is here on ly this weekend. .etc..
but he didnt know that. .shes been so called sacrificing her happiness just to say yes to him everytime.
he tot its fine. but in fact, he shld be taking notice of what shes been saying.. .and u know.
take note and bring her there.
when women say yes, it doesnt mean ..how to say.. that the men wil lgain points? if that makes sense.
in long run, guys must pay attention to what women is saying. .
for women.. .they must speak up more i guess.
cos mars and venus are diff . in thinknigs. .and actioing stuffs..etc..
guys cant take hints very well indeed .
so yea. .i duno what else he says that makes it more sensible.sorry i jsut .. don wanna open up book and find that page and repeat his own words. lol .buy his book if u wanXD
but u know. .i think its true.. .
ohhhh and one more i just read.. .guys will auto deduct
polints' . alottt of points if woman he love make him feel unloved ...etc... which is unfair the author say.
cos men.. u see. they don talk abt probs. and they don tlak abt it evea fter probs settled. so woemn. duno what went wrong. what hurts them. what mistakes they made. so its unfair.. .to treat them this way..and deduct their points minus 50 , when in fact they just earned 10.
then -40 alrdy
and so on.
anyway,
imma share 5 tips in ea ch blog. cos he gave 101. for how to score point wwith the woman u love . hte evry lil thigns that counts. (yes. .u mgiht think. .thats so simple? uh huh )
1. upon returning home, before doing anything else , find her first and give her a hug
2.ask her specific questions abt her day that indicate and awareness of what she was planning to do (eg how did the appointment with the doctor go?''
3 pratice listening and asking questions
4/ resist temptation to solve her problem. empathize instead
5. give her 20mins of unsolicited quality attention(don read newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time)
so here you go guys. hope t'll start off everythign well for u and ur love one. gain more points k ;)
jaa mata
my day just consists of busy working. ..cant believe he's gone now.. =/
mm.. yea. liek a dream. .
oh that night. this indian man. .husband of indian family.. .gosh . his arms liek touching against mine. so disgusted. i duno why they are like that.
when i was at kk, that indian uses elbows to sort of like bump into my boobs k. dang it
so i was readin gup to.. .ok. this author conotinued.. cos twice a week he will or once) bring his wife to movies date. one night his wife suddenly busrt out. u always go where u wan i nvr get to go where i want.
he was shocked cos he tot he gained points' for htat becos she always says yes whenever he ask her to movie .
but in fact, he realised. .shes been dropping hitns. ..say.. he drove passed or hwat. .she;l lcomment. .that opera is in town now... .or.. that new lay is here on ly this weekend. .etc..
but he didnt know that. .shes been so called sacrificing her happiness just to say yes to him everytime.
he tot its fine. but in fact, he shld be taking notice of what shes been saying.. .and u know.
take note and bring her there.
when women say yes, it doesnt mean ..how to say.. that the men wil lgain points? if that makes sense.
in long run, guys must pay attention to what women is saying. .
for women.. .they must speak up more i guess.
cos mars and venus are diff . in thinknigs. .and actioing stuffs..etc..
guys cant take hints very well indeed .
so yea. .i duno what else he says that makes it more sensible.sorry i jsut .. don wanna open up book and find that page and repeat his own words. lol .buy his book if u wanXD
but u know. .i think its true.. .
ohhhh and one more i just read.. .guys will auto deduct
polints' . alottt of points if woman he love make him feel unloved ...etc... which is unfair the author say.
cos men.. u see. they don talk abt probs. and they don tlak abt it evea fter probs settled. so woemn. duno what went wrong. what hurts them. what mistakes they made. so its unfair.. .to treat them this way..and deduct their points minus 50 , when in fact they just earned 10.
then -40 alrdy
and so on.
anyway,
imma share 5 tips in ea ch blog. cos he gave 101. for how to score point wwith the woman u love . hte evry lil thigns that counts. (yes. .u mgiht think. .thats so simple? uh huh )
1. upon returning home, before doing anything else , find her first and give her a hug
2.ask her specific questions abt her day that indicate and awareness of what she was planning to do (eg how did the appointment with the doctor go?''
3 pratice listening and asking questions
4/ resist temptation to solve her problem. empathize instead
5. give her 20mins of unsolicited quality attention(don read newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time)
so here you go guys. hope t'll start off everythign well for u and ur love one. gain more points k ;)
jaa mata
03 March 2015
spicy hot korean cup noodles
and so.. i was readin gon.. and its like...
after months of work.. .hefinally get a hoiday to relax with his wife. he expeted (the author) his wife to be happy.. butshe was like. .. ' imy life throughout was a mess and pain.. (exp)
he took a deep breathe... and say.. u know hwat. mine too ... someitmes lifes like.. .blah3.. ) *his hands motion into a twist of clothing ...
and them . his wife became happy. and talked abt how excited shes abt holiday
cos he knew shes only making a passing remark abt her life.. .shes not blaming him(for making her feel torn her life tetc)
in the past he wouldve gotten into a fight with her. but now... he understands her and see.. .no arguements=)
another...
he say.. .women wil ltake every little thing as 1 plus point for her man .
whislt man. .c os. .htey didnt know taht, they tot only by focusing on big' thing, will earn them 30points.
big thing like. .mm.. maybe.. .buy them a house.. buy the prada... give them diamonds?
then. .they worked so hard. .and neglated their wives and lil things.. .
to women. every Big thing or lil thing is all equare . one poit eac h .evem if u give them a house. its sone point.
but. u have to give htem a mixture. big and smalls.
its liek. .a cars tank. u need to fill up womens love. then they can give more ...etc.. .and admire u more. ..etc..
throwing out rubbish one point (he gave out 101 things points. haha .
all pretty spot on
anwyay yea.. .
or cook when u see her tired. one point.
say i lvoe u coupl eof days.. .one point. ..
al ltheese lil things. ..evenn asking hows ur day..
AND! once u rch home, instead of finding ur pet or children, or ur room, look for her first! thats also one point.
i can so imagien and totally relate to that. if my hubby came home after long stressful day at work, first thing he look for me, omg i will feels o happy and waanted and.. .yea. overjoyed =)
so there sheaps of lil things to gain points from.. .and feelthe love frmo. .
he had cases where. ..husband say he worked hard provide life adn mony pay bill .. .hyet everytime hes home wife not hapyy.
yes. pay bills, one point. thats it. but wheres hte other points??
cos he's been too busy. so she cant feel love.. .and his poitns is only work and pay bills.. .wherer the lil things like. .give her flowers.. .listen to her. .kiss her. .cuddle her.. .say i love u multiple tiems a day..etc.
or throwing out rubbish for her. ... .
thsi author say.. he made the same mistake too. then. his wife ifnaly wrotehim a letter. (left him a letter inside same house)
abt her sorrows..lonlines.s..anger..and love
like remidnede him of how much time she wish he could spend with her more instead. ..
thehm. .... whens he changed.. instead of 8 clients... he took 7. the 8th... he took it as his vip wie.
get home an hr extra early for her.. .tc. ..and soon.. both of them feels better relationships improved.. and even thoug hey 7 insteadof 8 clients??
no . hes not losing money .insteead, he realiased. when his home propers, his career as well!!
hes doing even better than before!!
wow. even when i wa sreaidn g. .like. .then how .. .his income drop? then he say... yea.. .everythng gets better=)
so glad to hear that
my fren knew im a spicy taker. .
so she todl me of videos posted by ppl.. .etc.. this korean cup noodle...
i had this before this wave started.
she and her fren ouldnt finish it. .
so far i see the vids.. most ppl cant ba
but fo rme i can.
always first time its abit more fdifficult ... but once u get used to its taste its perfect.y fine
first time i tried always find it spicy. then after 2more times or once, im ok liao.
it didnt occred t me that finsinig it in 10mins is a big thing .cos i eat very fastO.o
then she told me. .. theres a challenge 10mins eat finsih etc.. or wat
im like .erm.. ok. but thats pretty normal to me
cos its now liek a normal spicy noodle fo rme. itss v spicy but thats it .
so yea. i ate this before i knew of this hype going on in videos...etc. ...
could it be that.. .when i at it. ..it jsut got imported? hmm..
when i want a kick in my food, i go for either this cup noodle, or thaiepress yellow ginger cicken
first try i think the cup noodl taste pretty swt and bad. i don like swt n spicy mixed. but hte noodles s springy so yea
i liek it. .and yea.. .
nowim so craving for it after watching mre vids.
i definitely can eatmore cups.. cos one cup too small .
hahaha imagine if i post a video. .lol .will i be famous? nah
i don care such thing
hopefully i can find somehting spicier than those bah. lthsoe 2 dishes. ..
i wanna .if i could.. train' my future children to be gd spicy eater like me one day =) thatll be great. unnleesss hubby says noXD lol .
but. my children must at elast taek some mid level spicinessne =P
ahh.... back to.. normal as usual life routine again.. .sammys ack to uni.. haiz.. so yea. ..
hope thigns will get better as usuall.. .ne.
kk jaa mata
=)
gosh why i like hot food so much... slurpppssss
after months of work.. .hefinally get a hoiday to relax with his wife. he expeted (the author) his wife to be happy.. butshe was like. .. ' imy life throughout was a mess and pain.. (exp)
he took a deep breathe... and say.. u know hwat. mine too ... someitmes lifes like.. .blah3.. ) *his hands motion into a twist of clothing ...
and them . his wife became happy. and talked abt how excited shes abt holiday
cos he knew shes only making a passing remark abt her life.. .shes not blaming him(for making her feel torn her life tetc)
in the past he wouldve gotten into a fight with her. but now... he understands her and see.. .no arguements=)
another...
he say.. .women wil ltake every little thing as 1 plus point for her man .
whislt man. .c os. .htey didnt know taht, they tot only by focusing on big' thing, will earn them 30points.
big thing like. .mm.. maybe.. .buy them a house.. buy the prada... give them diamonds?
then. .they worked so hard. .and neglated their wives and lil things.. .
to women. every Big thing or lil thing is all equare . one poit eac h .evem if u give them a house. its sone point.
but. u have to give htem a mixture. big and smalls.
its liek. .a cars tank. u need to fill up womens love. then they can give more ...etc.. .and admire u more. ..etc..
throwing out rubbish one point (he gave out 101 things points. haha .
all pretty spot on
anwyay yea.. .
or cook when u see her tired. one point.
say i lvoe u coupl eof days.. .one point. ..
al ltheese lil things. ..evenn asking hows ur day..
AND! once u rch home, instead of finding ur pet or children, or ur room, look for her first! thats also one point.
i can so imagien and totally relate to that. if my hubby came home after long stressful day at work, first thing he look for me, omg i will feels o happy and waanted and.. .yea. overjoyed =)
so there sheaps of lil things to gain points from.. .and feelthe love frmo. .
he had cases where. ..husband say he worked hard provide life adn mony pay bill .. .hyet everytime hes home wife not hapyy.
yes. pay bills, one point. thats it. but wheres hte other points??
cos he's been too busy. so she cant feel love.. .and his poitns is only work and pay bills.. .wherer the lil things like. .give her flowers.. .listen to her. .kiss her. .cuddle her.. .say i love u multiple tiems a day..etc.
or throwing out rubbish for her. ... .
thsi author say.. he made the same mistake too. then. his wife ifnaly wrotehim a letter. (left him a letter inside same house)
abt her sorrows..lonlines.s..anger..and love
like remidnede him of how much time she wish he could spend with her more instead. ..
thehm. .... whens he changed.. instead of 8 clients... he took 7. the 8th... he took it as his vip wie.
get home an hr extra early for her.. .tc. ..and soon.. both of them feels better relationships improved.. and even thoug hey 7 insteadof 8 clients??
no . hes not losing money .insteead, he realiased. when his home propers, his career as well!!
hes doing even better than before!!
wow. even when i wa sreaidn g. .like. .then how .. .his income drop? then he say... yea.. .everythng gets better=)
so glad to hear that
my fren knew im a spicy taker. .
so she todl me of videos posted by ppl.. .etc.. this korean cup noodle...
i had this before this wave started.
she and her fren ouldnt finish it. .
so far i see the vids.. most ppl cant ba
but fo rme i can.
always first time its abit more fdifficult ... but once u get used to its taste its perfect.y fine
first time i tried always find it spicy. then after 2more times or once, im ok liao.
it didnt occred t me that finsinig it in 10mins is a big thing .cos i eat very fastO.o
then she told me. .. theres a challenge 10mins eat finsih etc.. or wat
im like .erm.. ok. but thats pretty normal to me
cos its now liek a normal spicy noodle fo rme. itss v spicy but thats it .
so yea. i ate this before i knew of this hype going on in videos...etc. ...
could it be that.. .when i at it. ..it jsut got imported? hmm..
when i want a kick in my food, i go for either this cup noodle, or thaiepress yellow ginger cicken
first try i think the cup noodl taste pretty swt and bad. i don like swt n spicy mixed. but hte noodles s springy so yea
i liek it. .and yea.. .
nowim so craving for it after watching mre vids.
i definitely can eatmore cups.. cos one cup too small .
hahaha imagine if i post a video. .lol .will i be famous? nah
i don care such thing
hopefully i can find somehting spicier than those bah. lthsoe 2 dishes. ..
i wanna .if i could.. train' my future children to be gd spicy eater like me one day =) thatll be great. unnleesss hubby says noXD lol .
but. my children must at elast taek some mid level spicinessne =P
ahh.... back to.. normal as usual life routine again.. .sammys ack to uni.. haiz.. so yea. ..
hope thigns will get better as usuall.. .ne.
kk jaa mata
=)
gosh why i like hot food so much... slurpppssss
01 March 2015
long post ?=P
was like reading... then this au youtuber is feeling lonely ..due to duno what prob she didnt share. ..and she was crying in the bathroom alone. .
her bf busy also cos uni started.. .so yea. ..
i totally feel her. but shes living with her bf so yea. at least not that bad.
cry ur heart out in the bathroom? uh huh. i bet most ppl will go through that
this old couple. .i posted in my fb" .. so nice. they married so long (67YEARS) and died at 5hrs apart. at the bottom end the post says. ."It would be nice if the world got back to the core of marriage," Letson said. "I don't think people realize that anymore. They need to go back to the basics that marriage is forever.
uh hhuh. soooo true. sighs. nowadays ppl don cherish that much anymore=(
to have that kind of love and marriage, its definitely a bless.... so sweet. ..thats everybodys dream of a lifetime partner.. .sobs. ..so nice. ...haiz.. .what a pity. .love is dying out of this world bit by bit =(
llifetime dream. bucket list. i hope mine will be like that too....
hehe. love it. i took pic of me and sammy holdings after we leftthe hotel =P i duno why i took a couple of pics f us hoildin ghands since years back haha. i just liek it alot bah .=P
my eye still abit swollen today.. due to m ed prob.. my volleague gave me
just abit. .but yea. .
i didnt see doc.. but. .shld be alright. hopefully by tmr y eye is back to normal. was surprised today stil abitbit swollen
we ate at hardrock cafe the other day. .and .. when the waiter served us the whiskey shot(so nice btw) ,
i duno why he first, stepped back. stood there. and smile. or watch. then im like. .tlaking and lookign at sammy. ..then i saw him stil lthere. .i was like. .. ok lor he smiled so i smile back. nod my head.. (to sort of indicate we are good) so he can leave. then he smile brightly and left.
so frenly ar the waiter O. o
today i almost took a long round detour home .
cos so paseh .theres this store next to us, ok don tlak abt the guy keep looking into the store. then theres this apartment promo open space. ..tand this is why i love to walk fast and be 'fierce expressionless looking' ,,,
when i walked past, i pretend look on my phone as always. .then when came back, theres nothing to look on phone liao. then i was looking at this small contact paper... for my work.. .then look too long, not natural. too late. i put down. ..and attempt to walk fater into the store.then this apartment guy handed me this brochure (i was looking on the floor upfront the wholetimeXD) for u or something he said. i said no thank u. ( allthis whilei nvr look at himXD) then right a way he say' you look good' i replied thank you.
then i wa slike. .omg thats weird. ... 'no thank u.'.( and then) 'thank u'.XD... at the same time. not even a sec apart. ok maybe theres a sec apart.
i duno how he looks like when my collegaue asked if he's handsome =.=
but alot of them wearing black suit so yea. i also duno who.. luckily when i left, most guys alrdy gone(with black suits)
so i was able to get out quickly whilst checking on my phone as always. phew....
hoepfully by tmr the promo spac is gone T_T
so.. .yea. ppl tel lies. .etc. so convincing. .i hate it when pl say such lies wihtout blinking an hr. and somemore pushes the blames to others. .and like..making themself into good beings.
waht to do.. anyway i ve lost my trust in her. and i wont trust her most liekly ever again .
not just me many team memebrs dislike her way of etc also .
the scariest is u gave ur trust,and that person pretended to be gd. but its all lies in the end. .=(
today saw a customer. .young bah. shes malay and fat. (gomen) and. ..her both arms. sighs. .. full of semi freshed cuts. from wrist to her elbow length. =(
i saw. and i maintain my posture. butmy heart. ..felt so much pain for her=((
sighs....
is ppl mocking her of her weight or her personal family probs>? i duno .but thats... by far, in my lifetime, the worse wrist uts ive ever seen. IN mmy life.
its long. .still abit red. ..(quite fresh ba) ... very long slash. .. narrow space. .meaning she slashes alot of times... both arm. ..omg. =/
so poor thing.
may she somehow find her way...into the light or somethign2... =/
haiz.. .hope she snot being abused or what. but seriosuly..when i saw her arms. .my heart so sad for her...
=(
she wanted get chocker.aseked which look the best for her.
in the end she nvr buy..
could it be.. that her frens are mocking her ugly? anyway.. ii duno ba=(
jsu thoep she will be fine. .
this cstome rtodl me. ..melbourbone is so boring. .. lal she did was look at the views.. mountains...u ow etc
thank goodnes.s.. i think gold coast might be better.. at lest just 2 dadys or so with movies world
kk. .i gtg liao...
isses sammy here. ..so weird.it sliek a dream that... yea he's here.
i ended early today.. but he's not replying.. duno slping early or what.. .anywa hope he get a v good rest. uh huh.. i understand how tired it is. .
oh this custoemr i sereved shays sherrly enjoyed my service and it mades her day!! shhe asked me for my age cos i look so young. and whether im parttimer. (may cust thought im pt)
i was liek ..hesitated abit.. cos i knew shes gonna say..whtat! u don look ur age. not boasting at all. but so far no one say im older than my age for entire lieftime. anyway yea.... greateful fo rhtat,but i don care abt age. anwyay. ..i wa slike. .oh im fulltime,
so yea. i dun ;ie to brat o rsay im sm bah...
so yea. .se ehow. hopefully she write in gd reviews for my company=)
k.. jaa mata..
her bf busy also cos uni started.. .so yea. ..
i totally feel her. but shes living with her bf so yea. at least not that bad.
cry ur heart out in the bathroom? uh huh. i bet most ppl will go through that
this old couple. .i posted in my fb" .. so nice. they married so long (67YEARS) and died at 5hrs apart. at the bottom end the post says. ."It would be nice if the world got back to the core of marriage," Letson said. "I don't think people realize that anymore. They need to go back to the basics that marriage is forever.
uh hhuh. soooo true. sighs. nowadays ppl don cherish that much anymore=(
to have that kind of love and marriage, its definitely a bless.... so sweet. ..thats everybodys dream of a lifetime partner.. .sobs. ..so nice. ...haiz.. .what a pity. .love is dying out of this world bit by bit =(
llifetime dream. bucket list. i hope mine will be like that too....
hehe. love it. i took pic of me and sammy holdings after we leftthe hotel =P i duno why i took a couple of pics f us hoildin ghands since years back haha. i just liek it alot bah .=P
my eye still abit swollen today.. due to m ed prob.. my volleague gave me
just abit. .but yea. .
i didnt see doc.. but. .shld be alright. hopefully by tmr y eye is back to normal. was surprised today stil abitbit swollen
we ate at hardrock cafe the other day. .and .. when the waiter served us the whiskey shot(so nice btw) ,
i duno why he first, stepped back. stood there. and smile. or watch. then im like. .tlaking and lookign at sammy. ..then i saw him stil lthere. .i was like. .. ok lor he smiled so i smile back. nod my head.. (to sort of indicate we are good) so he can leave. then he smile brightly and left.
so frenly ar the waiter O. o
today i almost took a long round detour home .
cos so paseh .theres this store next to us, ok don tlak abt the guy keep looking into the store. then theres this apartment promo open space. ..tand this is why i love to walk fast and be 'fierce expressionless looking' ,,,
when i walked past, i pretend look on my phone as always. .then when came back, theres nothing to look on phone liao. then i was looking at this small contact paper... for my work.. .then look too long, not natural. too late. i put down. ..and attempt to walk fater into the store.then this apartment guy handed me this brochure (i was looking on the floor upfront the wholetimeXD) for u or something he said. i said no thank u. ( allthis whilei nvr look at himXD) then right a way he say' you look good' i replied thank you.
then i wa slike. .omg thats weird. ... 'no thank u.'.( and then) 'thank u'.XD... at the same time. not even a sec apart. ok maybe theres a sec apart.
i duno how he looks like when my collegaue asked if he's handsome =.=
but alot of them wearing black suit so yea. i also duno who.. luckily when i left, most guys alrdy gone(with black suits)
so i was able to get out quickly whilst checking on my phone as always. phew....
hoepfully by tmr the promo spac is gone T_T
so.. .yea. ppl tel lies. .etc. so convincing. .i hate it when pl say such lies wihtout blinking an hr. and somemore pushes the blames to others. .and like..making themself into good beings.
waht to do.. anyway i ve lost my trust in her. and i wont trust her most liekly ever again .
not just me many team memebrs dislike her way of etc also .
the scariest is u gave ur trust,and that person pretended to be gd. but its all lies in the end. .=(
today saw a customer. .young bah. shes malay and fat. (gomen) and. ..her both arms. sighs. .. full of semi freshed cuts. from wrist to her elbow length. =(
i saw. and i maintain my posture. butmy heart. ..felt so much pain for her=((
sighs....
is ppl mocking her of her weight or her personal family probs>? i duno .but thats... by far, in my lifetime, the worse wrist uts ive ever seen. IN mmy life.
its long. .still abit red. ..(quite fresh ba) ... very long slash. .. narrow space. .meaning she slashes alot of times... both arm. ..omg. =/
so poor thing.
may she somehow find her way...into the light or somethign2... =/
haiz.. .hope she snot being abused or what. but seriosuly..when i saw her arms. .my heart so sad for her...
=(
she wanted get chocker.aseked which look the best for her.
in the end she nvr buy..
could it be.. that her frens are mocking her ugly? anyway.. ii duno ba=(
jsu thoep she will be fine. .
this cstome rtodl me. ..melbourbone is so boring. .. lal she did was look at the views.. mountains...u ow etc
thank goodnes.s.. i think gold coast might be better.. at lest just 2 dadys or so with movies world
kk. .i gtg liao...
isses sammy here. ..so weird.it sliek a dream that... yea he's here.
i ended early today.. but he's not replying.. duno slping early or what.. .anywa hope he get a v good rest. uh huh.. i understand how tired it is. .
oh this custoemr i sereved shays sherrly enjoyed my service and it mades her day!! shhe asked me for my age cos i look so young. and whether im parttimer. (may cust thought im pt)
i was liek ..hesitated abit.. cos i knew shes gonna say..whtat! u don look ur age. not boasting at all. but so far no one say im older than my age for entire lieftime. anyway yea.... greateful fo rhtat,but i don care abt age. anwyay. ..i wa slike. .oh im fulltime,
so yea. i dun ;ie to brat o rsay im sm bah...
so yea. .se ehow. hopefully she write in gd reviews for my company=)
k.. jaa mata..
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